Sunday, December 23, 2012

#12 Get to know your nation's capital

Eighth grade was an interesting year for me. I had my fair share of low points (AKA failing to make the volleyball and cheer teams again after being on both in seventh grade...very devastating, as you can imagine) but it also had its highlights (AKA when the musical director/devil of a cheerleading coach who felt bad for me decided to let me project my three lines in our production of High School Musical onstage, when originally they were meant to be said in the wings).

But the real fun came just a few hours after we "graduated" from Jr. High and boarded the big coach buses that took us to the airport for the much-anticipated eighth grade DC trip.

Now, the DC trip was known as being pretty flipping awesome for two reasons. 1) You get to spend four days and three nights with your best friends and 2) You get to have the "cool" teachers be your parents for those four days and three nights. Little did my ignorant fourteen year old self realize that the trip would turn into much more than an extended sleepover in a different state.

DC is a truly amazing city. Everywhere you turn, there's an opportunity to learn something new about the country that we call home. Whether you know all there is to know about the Lincoln memorial or not, nothing compares to actually standing there and looking out across the reflection pond after admiring Honest Abe's enormous marble feet. If you get the chance to see it for yourself, stand there and pretend it's 1963, and you're watching the same crowd of peaceful segregation protesters that Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was as they gathered to listen to his famous "I Have a Dream" speech.

There's a special energy in the air in DC. It's as if you can just feel the significance of all the topics being discussed and decisions that are being made as you drive by buildings like the Capitol or the White House. History takes on a new meaning when you stand in a dark room and attempt to read the original document outlining the rules that have regulated our country since 1789, or the document that's guaranteed our independence from England since 1776.

A new perspective can be taken on war after visiting the Vietnam and Korean war memorials, and especially Arlington National Cemetery. Fourteen year old Niki didn't quite understand the impact that all those fallen soldiers made until she felt the groove of their names carved into the wall, or when she stood at the top of a hill overlooking a sea of snow white grave stones dotting the field below like trees.

When we're young, I think we take our government for granted. It's not until we start to grow and mature that we begin to comprehend the importance of their presence in our everyday lives, and looking back on it, I would love to go back to DC now after learning all that I have about American government and politics. Being in the city where the future of our country is determined brings a new reality to both the past and the present, and although I'm much more mature now, that trip left a great impact on me.

Watching footage of trapped businessmen and women jump from the windows of the Word Trade Center while standing a few feet from a wall covered entirely in front page newspaper clippings from September 12, 2001 made the unforgettable event much more personal. The same result occurs from a visit to the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum. The museum specifically aims to make the experience personal by handing you a small booklet the moment you walk in. The booklet includes the name of a prisoner, their age, the concentration camp they were sent to and that person's shortened story-accompanied by pictures-to read as you make your way through the heartbreaking exhibits. Once you have made your way through the entire museum, you are told to flip to the last page to see if the person you were assigned was a survivor or not. If they're not, it feels a bit like a part of you goes to heaven with them.

So, my DC trip turned out to be a lot more than I ever anticipated it would. Sure, I stayed up late laughing and having "girl talk" with my best friends/room mates just like I would at any sleepover back home, but I also shared experiences with them that I've yet to be able to duplicate. While some of the sites we visited brought a more somber tone, the overall mood of the trip was quite the opposite. I left DC invigorated by the knowledge and experience that I gained, and I adopted a new appreciation for the people that have been running this country all this time. 






Tuesday, December 18, 2012

#11 See the deserts of Santa Fe from a bird's eye view

I'm a fan of nature. I'm a camper, as I've mentioned before. I love kayaking, canoeing, hiking, swimming, and all the usual outdoorsy activities. I love observing the scene around me, especially when I'm away from the endless sea of ridiculously flat land that encompasses basically the entirety of my home state of Illinois.

So, whenever I'm lucky enough to visit my grandparents in Santa Fe, New Mexico, I spend a large chunk of time admiring the postcard-perfect mountains around me. Thus naturally, it sounded like a fantastic idea to hike up the large hill (or what I'd like to call a "mini mountain" to help my pride) across from their house when I last visited a few years ago.



The hike really wasn't difficult. It was actually my second time doing it, and now that my mom and I actually knew where the path was unlike our first attempt, it was mostly smooth sailing to the top.

Getting back down was the problem.

For whatever reason, luck was just not on my side on that sunny day in June. I'm not sure if it was the glare of the intense rays bouncing off my sunglasses, or just pure disregard of where I was walking. I bet it was a combination of both. But regardless, I made a hard, embarrassing fall right into the lap of a lovely cactus.



Now, I'm not sure why I'm sharing this story because my original purpose here is to tell you all the great things about Santa Fe and why everyone should visit, but I think what I'm trying to say is that while nature can be harmful, it's worth appreciating when you're in a place as beautiful as Santa Fe.

Although I had never been more embarrassed in my whole life as I laid in my grandparents' living room, having needles pulled out of my blood-stained thighs, I didn't regret going on the hike. It had been a little challenging and I was tired once I got to the top, but that view was worth the work and the eventual wound to my pride.

If you don't believe me, check it out for yourself.



Monday, December 17, 2012

#10 Take a minute

It's 3:19 am and I'm up thinking about the school shooting in Newtown, CT.

I know we've all heard it a million times, but this saying is especially true right now: Cherish what you have while you still have it, because you never know when it might be taken from you.

While we'll never really be able to answer the question as to why this tragedy happened, there is something to learn from it just as there is something to learn from everything that happens in our lifetime. Take a minute. Breath. Reflect. Be thankful.

I've always made an effort to tell people how much they mean to me. I'm a hugger, and thankfully so are my friends, so I almost never leave them without a proper goodbye embrace. But, in my opinion, there is no better way to show someone how much you mean to them than by telling them directly. No matter how quick our conversation may be, I always end my phone calls to my parents with an "I love you." They've given me everything in this life, and if fate decided to take them away from me someday, I'd want to know that I'd expressed my love for them the last time we spoke.

I don't know if the parents of the 20 children that were killed all got to tell their children they loved them before school that day. And I'll never know. But my guess is that not all of them got the chance.

Maybe they were late to work, and in a rush to drop the kids off at school. Maybe they were too busy packing lunches and making doctors appointments and figuring out who was going to drive to gymnastics class. Maybe they had forgotten something really important back at home. Maybe they were already at work, and the kids got a ride with someone else to school.

Regardless, who knows if they got to say that final "I love you". And maybe you wouldn't have either. So maybe, regardless of how busy all of our lives our, we should take a minute and vocalize those three meaningful words to those that are important to us today.

And tomorrow.

And all the days after that.

Sunday, December 9, 2012

It's that time of year...

It's finals time my friends. Hence the lack of posts, and reason why I won't have a real post again until this weekend probably. I doubt there is anyone following this blog religiously other than maybe my Mom but if there is, then A) I love you and B) I'll be back soon!